Asking Eric: My boyfriend can’t afford our preferred college. Should I stay home just for him?

A woman is struggling with a decision after her boyfriend requested that she stay home or defer college because he cannot afford their preferred institution. While long-distance relationships present significant challenges, there is a critical concern regarding whether staying home for him would eventually lead to growing resentment. The situation pits her personal dreams against the desire to remain with her partner, highlighting the emotional tension between academic goals and relationship stability.