Asking Eric: I love gossiping and I can’t stop. My husband hates it.

A woman is seeking guidance from R. Eric Thomas regarding her compulsive habit of gossiping and spilling tea. While she enjoys this behavior and does not want to stop, her husband strongly dislikes it, viewing it as a bad look. This ongoing disagreement over her tendency to talk trash about others is creating significant tension and making things tough between the couple, ultimately hurting their marriage as the husband refuses to let the issue go.