Asking Eric: I’m a widower. Is it possible to be in love with two people this late in life?

A widower is seeking guidance from R. Eric Thomas regarding the possibility of being in love with two women simultaneously late in life. The individual has confessed his feelings to one of the women but has explicitly stated that he will not advance the relationship further. This decision is based on his desire to avoid causing damage to the woman's existing marriage, despite the fact that he cannot stop thinking about her while managing these dual emotions.