Dear Abby: My nephew lacks survival skills. How do I get out of this stinky situation?

A person who allowed their nephew to move in is facing difficulties due to the young man's lack of survival skills. Although the nephew is employed, he fails to perform basic household tasks or save money to secure his own residence. This situation has led the relative to regret the offer of assistance. Additionally, a mother is undecided about returning belongings to her estranged son, highlighting various family conflicts and struggles with independence.