Dear Abby: I want to find out what happened in my estranged friend’s death

Dear Abby provides guidance to individuals facing complex emotional situations. One person seeks information regarding the death of an estranged friend, despite a returned condolence letter and concerns about bothering the widow. Separately, a man requests advice on how to communicate to his wife and children that he does not wish to celebrate his birthday. These cases highlight the challenges of navigating grief, estrangement, and personal boundaries within family and social relationships.