Dear Abby: Am I selfish for not giving my husband’s children money from my inheritance?

A woman is consulting Dear Abby after her new husband insisted that his adult children are entitled to a portion of her inheritance. The woman questions this demand, noting that she has already paid off her husband's debts and settled their house payments. Having spent very little time with the children, she seeks guidance on whether she is being selfish by refusing to share her personal inheritance with her husband's children in this situation.