Dear Abby: My cheating ex-husband died — am I wrong for skipping his funeral?

A woman sought advice from Dear Abby regarding whether to attend the funeral of her first husband, who had cheated and publicly humiliated her. The ex-husband's family did not notify her of his death, which she learned through a friend. Dear Abby advised that she is not obligated to attend the service. Instead, she was encouraged to spend the day doing something enjoyable with supportive friends while maintaining her indifference toward the deceased.