Dear Abby: My son thinks his girlfriend is a real catch. I think he should throw her back

A parent expresses doubts about their son's girlfriend, questioning if her behavior during their first meeting was due to nervousness or deeper issues. In another instance, a parent admits to disliking their son's partner and seeks advice on how to encourage him to find a more suitable wife. The individual emphasizes a desire to truly love their daughter-in-law rather than simply tolerating her, urging the son to seek a better partner.