Dear Abby: Narcissistic mother punished me for moving away by secretly burying my dad without informing me

A woman reports that her narcissistic mother secretly buried her father without notifying her, an act she believes was punishment for moving away. Despite being close with her father and begging to be included in the arrangements, she only received a short, sad video of her mother and brother at the gravesite. Two years have passed since the event, yet the mother maintains that she did nothing wrong regarding the funeral arrangements.