Dear Abby: I’ve never asked for help with my illness, but when my mom died, suddenly friends went silent

A woman who previously managed her illness without assistance experienced sudden isolation following the death of her mother. Despite common assurances that friends will provide support during difficult times, she found that her social circle went silent and vanished exactly when she needed them most. This experience left her feeling utterly alone, highlighting a painful disconnect between the promises of friendship and the reality of her situation during a period of profound grief and vulnerability.