Dear Annie: People say I should get over my husband’s death ... I can’t

A woman expresses frustration regarding her husband's preference for socializing with a couple she dislikes due to their loud behavior, constant arguing, and excessive drinking. Meanwhile, another individual struggles with the lasting grief following her husband's death. Despite the passage of many years, she remains unable to find peace or a sense of justice, contradicting the common advice from others suggesting that she should simply get over the loss of her spouse.