Dear Abby: My husband’s trauma is destroying our marriage

A gay man married for seven years is experiencing a breakdown in intimacy and sexual incompatibility resulting from his husband's religious trauma. After meeting a new individual, he has realized a significant divergence in values and goals between himself and his spouse. Consequently, he has sought advice from Dear Abby while considering whether to end the marriage, as the ongoing trauma continues to destroy their relationship and emotional connection over the last seven years.