Dear Abby: I want to be wanted but my wife isn’t interested

A husband expresses deep dissatisfaction with his marriage's sex life after ten years. Despite his wife previously attributing her lack of interest to her weight, the situation worsened following her weight loss surgery. The man desires to feel wanted and is seeking advice from Dear Abby. Meanwhile, a former next-door neighbor has expressed a desire to show their appreciation toward him, adding another layer of complexity to the husband's current emotional and relational struggles.