Dear Abby: I’m upset my friends gave excuses for not attending my mother’s funeral

A grieving individual is deeply upset after friends provided various excuses for not attending their mother's memorial service. While the person's spouse suggests focusing on their mutual support, the individual feels intense emotions and frustration that friends are prioritizing birthday parties and soccer games over the funeral. The situation has led to a conflict between the need for emotional support during a loss and the perceived lack of loyalty from their social circle.