Abby: Wife doesn't want to be around husband's grandchildren

A woman married to Ted for eleven years is facing marital tension because she refuses to embrace the role of a grandmother. As a teacher, she spends her professional life with children and desires no further involvement during her free time. While Ted happily dotes on his four grandchildren, the wife feels their couple time is fading. Ted's children have noticed her absence, creating a divide as she prioritizes her boundaries over family expectations.