Miss Manners: Does wearing a white dress to bridal shower make me ‘selfish’?

Miss Manners, featuring Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin, and Jacobina Martin, addresses the etiquette of wearing white dresses to bridal showers. One guest questioned why younger women dictate her clothing choices, labeling the act of wearing white as selfish. The experts evaluate whether banning white at all bridal events is an excessive requirement. The discussion focuses on balancing traditional social expectations with modern interpretations of bridal shower attire and the dynamics of guest behavior.