Miss Manners: My late husband’s ex wrote a public tribute to him that bothers me. Can I respond?

A widow expressed anger and hurt after her late husband's former girlfriend posted a public tribute regarding their past relationship on his online memory page. Seeking guidance on whether to respond, the widow contacted the Miss Manners column. Advice columnist Judith Martin, along with Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin, responded to the inquiry. The provided counsel suggests that the widow should ignore the tribute rather than engaging with the ex-girlfriend's public post.