When kids think that they have no control over their anger and satisfaction it leads to great despair and misery.

When children believe they possess no control over their feelings of anger and satisfaction, it results in significant misery and despair. This perception of emotional helplessness creates a state of great distress for the youth involved. The inability to manage these specific emotional responses leads directly to profound psychological suffering. Consequently, the lack of perceived agency over their internal emotional states is a primary driver of despair and misery within the childhood experience.